23: Why I won’t dread growing older in my ‘Jordan Year’

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If I’m being honest, I spent my 22nd birthday in the most melodramatic way possible – complaining over the fact that I was turning 22. Like most things when you’re young, it seems ridiculous in retrospect. I’m embarrassed to admit it – but I spent a large majority of the months leading up to 22 dreading it. Perhaps because, like the store, I wanted to be “forever 21” or maybe 22 was simply the first birthday that seemed “not so fun”, either way, I was dreading the day.

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Picture on my 22nd birthday (2016)

However, I quickly found how young I actually was – and ever so ironically – began to dread turning 23.

Now that I’m 23 (and 20 hours into it so clearly an expert on the topic of being 23), I’m no longer dreading being another year older. In fact, 23 still sounds extremely young so I’m just grateful for another year in my early-twenties.

This year, I promise myself to stop dreading growing older and the inevitable passage of time and instead, will enjoy the next 365 days while they’re still here.

When I take the time to think about it, I find it funny how we spent so much of our lives dreading and fearing the future, instead of simply living in the moment – where’s the quality of life in that? As with many people, my fear of the future stems from my fear of the unknown. However, with age, I’ve only found more happiness – so why are we so quick to fear that?

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Picture on my 23rd birthday (2017)

22 was truly one of the best years of my life. While I’m sad to see such a wonderful chapter in my life come to a close, I know that if 23 is even half as great as 22 was, I’ll have an incredible year. However, if I’ve learned anything from the passage of time it’s this: great things will continue to happen.

For these reasons, I can’t wait for my 23rd year. I’m looking forward to settling into my semi-new life as an adult and experiencing all of the great things that will come with that, as well as experiencing all of the things I can’t yet foresee (the future doesn’t have to be so scary). This is why I think my Jordan year will be the best yet.

Until next time,
Sammi

P.S. – for those of you who don’t know, your ‘Jordan Year’ is your 23rd year – it symbolizes Michael Jordan’s jersey number – so obviously it’s going to be great.

 

Year-End Review: Senior Year

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Well, that’s a wrap, folks. I’ve officially completed four years of college and am a college graduate. For a look back in time, check out Year-End Review: Freshmen EditionYear-End Review: Sophomore Edition and Year-End Review: Junior Edition. This year was a wonderful year, full of making last-minute memories, adapting to new changes and preparing for a new chapter in my life.

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August: If you’ve read my blog in the past 9 months, then you know that my senior year started off with a bang. From traveling 4,000+ miles to Rio de Janeiro, Brazil to attending the 2016 Summer Olympics and spending three weeks in a different country with great friends, by far my favorite memory from this month was the travel and new opportunities and adventures afforded to me. To top it off, I begun the adventure of senior year and celebrated my 22nd birthday.

 

IMG_9461September: September was all about celebrating and spending time with my sorority sisters in Sigma Kappa. From beginning my second semester as chapter president to participating in my fourth formal recruitment, I enjoyed every second spent with the closest friends I made while at Ball State. Not to mention, I was able to watch one of my closest friends, Rachel, excel at VP of Membership and met a wonderful friend, our chapter Leadership Consultant, Becca Armstrong.

IMG_9649October: One of my favorite memories of senior year was spending a night in Broad Ripple with a few of my best friends and visiting one of my favorite bars, Brick House, for the first time. Also in October, my friends and I participated in my fourth Walk to End Alzheimer’s in downtown Indianapolis and spent an afternoon at Tuttle Orchards. There, we enjoyed apple cider slushies, pumpkin picking and some of the freshest apples I’ve ever tasted.

IMG_0377November: Every year, one of my favorite parts of November is the memories I make with my family. Thanksgiving has always been my favorite holiday (though many people ask me why that is) for the fact that it’s all about spending time with family and friends without expecting anything in return. This year, the best part of Thanksgiving may have been nearly drinking an entire punch bowl of whisky with my cousin, Sabrina, and drinking one-too-many fireball shots the day after at Four Day Ray Brewing in Fishers.

IMG_0429December: Moving into my favorite month of the year, December was filled with a lot of sweet memories, too. From participating in my first Dittoe PR Christmas bar crawl to Christmas celebrations with my family to New Year’s Eve festivities with my best friend, Megan, I was ready to welcome in 2017. Like every NYE, it’s always saddening to see such a wonderful year go, I knew that this new year would definitely be one of the best yet (and it hasn’t proven itself wrong yet, either).
January: Processed with VSCO with c1 presetJanuary, like it is every year, proved itself to be a somewhat boring month. Despite beginning my last semester at Ball State, nothing out of the ordinary happened this month. I was able to spend more quality time with my friends and even got to enjoy some warm weather (which reaffirmed my belief in global warming, to my dismay). Coming off the high that was Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year’s (collectively my favorite time of the year), I would still say all-in-all it was a great month. I also spent some time curled up on my couch in my new blanket watching some of my favorite TV shows and movies on Netflix.

IMG_0072February: Unlike the month before, this month was somewhat more exciting. For one, I spent Valentine’s Day with two of my best friends, where we made a special dinner of baked spaghetti, wine and dessert. I had the opportunity to travel to Sigma Kappa National Headquarters and meet 20+ sisters from across the nation. Finally, and most importantly, I received the greatest honor of my collegiate career: I was awarded the Greek Life Chapter President of the Year award at our annual “grand chapter” awards ceremony. It was such a honor to be recognized for my hard work in 2016 and to represent Sigma Kappa in front of BSU.

Processed with VSCO with hb2 presetMarch: March brought a much-needed month of relaxation and surprises. Kicking off the month, I went on a five-day cruise with one of my best friends, Rachel. Not only was it my first cruise, but it was also my first time in the Bahamas and Key West. Additionally, I was extended a full-time job offer as an Account Coordinator with Dittoe Public Relations, where I had been interning for the past year.

Processed with VSCO with hb2 presetApril: I began the last full month as a college student with a bang. From my final sorority formal to fun nights out with friends to a trip to Washington, D.C., this month was by far one of my favorite of senior year. I also spent a fun day with my family at a winery and out to lunch at the Fashion Mall. By the time May rolled around, I was definitely sad to see this month go but grateful for such a wonderful year!

 

 

Gowns, Paychecks and Other Changes

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Senior year of high school (2012) to senior year of college (2016)

Well, it’s official: I’ve been terrible keeping up with blog posts this semester.

In my defense, I’ve been soaking up and enjoying the last four months of my collegiate career (and my youth, depending on who you ask). I’ve always been a person who appreciates each day (or at least I feel that way) so I can’t be too upset about enjoying my days and the little things rather than getting wrapped up in writing blog posts. Though, I do have several drafts that never quite made it published so, hey, at least I tried? I promise I’ll get better now that I’m an almost-boring-adult.

Nevertheless, I have a lot of exciting changes happening in the next 30 days.

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My decorated cap for my upcoming graduation.

For one, I’ll be graduating with a Bachelor of Science in Public Relations on May 6. After four long, grueling but amazing years, I will finally have a diploma to prove all of my hard work. It’s hard to believe how fast four years flew by (check out ‘Changes’ a blog post I wrote almost 4 years ago exactly that is eerily similar to this one) and how difficult it is going to be to say goodbye to the best school, friends and memories I could have ever asked for. However, I know that my sadness is no more than a testament to how great my time has been.

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Mom and Dad during their Ball State years. Ever since I could remember, I knew I wanted to attend BSU.

 

The craziest part about graduating to me is that it is finally happening. It’s one of those things I never spent a lot of time thinking about (as everyone says college is the best time of your life, so why would I think about leaving?) so it’s weird to know that in just a few weeks, it WILL be real. I’ll finally get to join my parents in saying I’m an alumna of Ball State University, almost 30 years exactly after they did.

I’ll also be starting a full-time job at Dittoe Public Relations mid-May as an Account Coordinator. By far, this is the most exciting part about the newest chapter in my life. I’m excited to take the first step in my professional career and join a company that I love so much.

Another change for me will be moving back home with my mom and dad, or as I now affectionally call them, my roommates. I’m also guessing this new change in particular will warrant a blog post or two. Regardless, I’m thankful that I have a place and people who will let me move back in (temporarily) to save up some money until I can land on my own two feet.

Most importantly, I’m thankful for all of the opportunities and experiences I’ve been afforded throughout the years. The great and fond memories I have only make me more excited for all of the amazing things that I know lie ahead of me. So, here’s to the future and taking my first “big” leap. I’ll leave with my all-time favorite quote:

“There are far better things ahead than any we leave behind” – C.S. Lewis

Cheers!

Sammi

Reverse Bucket List: 5 Things I’ve Already Done

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I have a very long, like extremely long, laundry list of things I want to do in my life – a bucket list, if you will. I aspire to visit all 50 states, publish a book, have my writing published for a national magazine/outlet, obtain my Master’s Degree, become a Vice President (or higher!) of a company and, of course, a whole lot of other things.

Regardless, I think it’s important to be able to look back and reflect on the things you have accomplished as you work your way towards the things you want to accomplish. While I have not done everything, I hope to be able to one day. So, here’s a look back at a few things I’ve already accomplished in my 22 years.

1. Attended the Olympics 

I can’t begin the list and not start off by mentioning my most amazing, international (and sometimes, still unbelievable) adventure. About 5 months ago, I set sail (or really, boarded an airplane) to Rio de Janeiro, Brazil to spend 3 weeks in the 2016 Summer Olympics host city. I was afforded this opportunity by my university, and was able to both immerse myself in the culture and the city of Brazil, while also taking part in the fun that was the Olympics. I was able to visit Brazilian landmarks, such as Sugarloaf Mountain and Christ the Redeemer, as well as three Olympic games.

Not only was this my first trip outside of the United States, but it was my first Olympics, my first South American adventure and my first multi-week-long trip. While I’m sure I’ll do plenty more interesting things in my life, this may always be the best. If you want to hear more about my Rio adventures, check out my blog post on the experience!

2. Obtained my Bachelor’s Degree 

So, technically, I’m don’t have my Bachelor’s Degree yet, but I’m only four months shy of it. Therefore, I’ve already put in the bulk of the work. Not to mention, my application to graduate has also already been approved.

I decided to include this milestone because, as I quickly approach my degree, I’ve increasingly found how impressive it truly is to be able to graduate from college. Growing up, I never thought much of a college degree. Where I’m from, it’s something that you simply do, not always something that you work towards. However, as the years have gone on, and the more I’ve realized how many people don’t have the opportunity to attend college or simply don’t finish their degree, I’ve grown to appreciate and value my education more. I think finishing my Bachelor’s Degree in 4 years – without ever once changing my major or minor – is a pretty impressive feat.

3. Wrote the president (and got a response!) 

When I was nine in third grade, our class read a book on the president of the United States. In this book, it discussed how American citizens could write the president. With a pencil and a piece of paper, I wrote a letter to President George W. Buh at 1600 Pennsylvania Ave. Though I have no idea what was in that letter, to my surprise, I received a response from the president just a few months later. This was only the beginning of my love for government and civic duty.

4. Graduated high school at an NFL stadium 

I don’t think many people can say they graduated high school at the same stadium their favorite NFL team plays at every Sunday. However, I certainly can! My high school graduation was held at Lucas Oil Stadium, the home of the Indianapolis Colts. While high school graduation is already an accomplishment and excitement in itself, I have to say it was pretty awesome to be able to walk out onto the field feeling like Andrew Luck (with a little less of a crowd). If you want to read a really old, but still well-written post, check out “Changes”, a blog post I wrote a few weeks after high school graduation.

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June 8, 2013. Graduation at Lucas Oil Stadium (home of the Colts!) 

5. Had dinner with the 48th Vice President of the United States

My senior year of high school I was apart of a government debate team of sorts called “We the People”. Like many other students who found themselves in that class, I was interested in government and found myself wanting to learn more about our Constitution. Appropriately, my time in this organization fell during the 2012 Presidential Election, also the first time I could legally vote.

That year, congressperson Mike Pence was running for Governor of Indiana. He and his family relocated from Washington, D.C. to Indianapolis for his gubernatorial race. So, my senior year, his daughter, Audrey, enrolled in my high school, as well as my “We the People” class. Political beliefs aside, that year during his election, Mike Pence visited our weekly practices and even mentored my team one-on-one at one practice. After our competition season was over, Mike Pence and his family had our entire class over for dinner in the Governor’s Mansion he had recently moved in to.

Though I can’t say I agree with the things that Vice President Elect, Mike Pence, does, I did think it was pretty cool when he became our next Vice President and I realized I once had dinner at his home. (Strangely enough – I didn’t get a picture with VP Pence. However, you can see a bit of his head in the background in the second picture). You can also check out my experience with Mike Pence by reading this old blog post, “Sweet Home Indiana”.

Good Luck Traditions to Start Your New Year

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If you know me, you know how much I love holidays. I frequently warn people that I tell everyone, “(insert any holiday) is my favorite holiday”, oftentimes confusing others. However, I really, truly do love almost every holiday out there. I think what I like so much about these special days are the traditions that come with them.

For my family, I like to think that we are tradition-heavy, with quite a few quirky things we always do for the holidays. One of them is our New Year’s Day dinner. For as long as I can remember, my maternal grandmother would host my family at her place for a dinner of corned beef and cabbage. Of course, throughout the years, we’ve added a few other side dishes, like mashed potatoes, carrots and wine (lots and lots of it).

img_8301Though not the least bit Irish in any way, our family has latched onto this Irish holiday to say the least. According to Irish folklore, eating corned beef and cabbage on New Year’s Day brings good luck and prosperity to the new year. For me, it brings a full and happy stomach from a favorite meal I only get to eat once a year.

Apparently, eating pork or beef on the start of the new year is good luck because those animals do not scratch in the dirt for the food. Moreover, these ancient folklores say that eating chicken on New Year’s Day is unlikely, as you are “setting your destiny” for the new year to scratching in the dirt for your survival (yikes).

According to my local newspaper, The Indy Star, there are quite a few other foods to bring prosperity into the new year. Ring-shaped food, such as donuts and bagels, signify the year coming full circle and are said to be lucky foods. Never would’ve thought that simply eating your breakfast favorites would bring good fortune to the new year, did ya?

Whole fish are apparently good luck, too. Though, that’s a dish probably NSFH (not safe for home) and one to venture out to a restaurant for if that’s your choosing of lucky foods, as are black eyed peas and any type of pork.

Whatever your choice of lucky foods are this new year, all the “real” luck you’ll need this year are a few solid goals, a positive mindset and determination to make change in your life (re: “5 Secrets to Having the Best Year Ever”). What are your personal favorite traditions for the New Year? Share below!

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5 Secrets to Having the Best Year Ever

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A new year right around the corner means time for resolutions, goals and milestones. For many, a new year means a fresh start. While some scoff at the idea of a New Year’s resolution (re: my 2015 post “This Year, Ditch Your Resolutions”), I can’t deny that there is nothing I love more than an opportunity to begin again. Not to mention, I absolutely can’t pass up the opportunity to set new goals for myself. So this year, I’m sharing 5 secrets for you to implement into your life in 2017 in order to truly have the best year ever.

1. Define your goals

Whatever your goals may be, make sure you define them. If you want a great year, you’ll need great goals to accompany it. You may want to choose one main, overarching goal or 5-7 smaller goals for your year. The key to accomplishing your goals is to set goals that make you excited. What areas of your life need the most attention? What have you been putting off for some time now? I’ve found that passion is my main motivator, so aspire to accomplish the things you are most passionate about.

However, if you don’t achieve your goals, I think it’s important to note that you shouldn’t beat yourself up over any “failed” accomplishments. The important thing is that you find ways to then accomplish those goals, or you learn from them. Bottom line: if you don’t accomplish something, don’t beat yourself up over it.

2. Put the past behind you 

A fresh start means no baggage. To truly make this year great, don’t hold onto “could’ve, should’ve, would’ve” or anything from the past that is holding you back from accomplishing greatness. This year, commit to not letting your past resurface into your life. One way to accomplish this is every time you start to think of that one (or two) thing from your past that is always coming back to haunt you, start thinking about something else. Don’t let it control you. The past is the past, so let it stay there.

3. Take time out of each day just for you 

Ultimately, one of the best things you could ever do for yourself is to take time out of each day just for you. I’m definitely one of those people who needs some “me” time every day, though even if you are a person who thrives on the company of others, consider doing something just for yourself each day. Not only will this potentially help you reach some of those goals you set for yourself, but it will also help you to clear your mind and just relax. With the chaos and busyness of the world, we all need a little time to just do whatever makes us happy and forget about our worries (if only for a second).

4. Integrate healthy habits

Trust me, I am no health guru. However, I do realize that implementing healthy habits into your life will help make you happier, and therefore make your year happier. Oftentimes, we accomplish and realize other things when we are able to take care of ourselves first. Maybe this means implementing a new exercise plan into your daily life, cutting out junk food, taking a multivitamin daily, or even learning to take care of your skin.

5. Focus on the positive

Ultimately, the best secret I can give you to have the best year ever, is to focus on the positive and force any negative distractions out of your life. We all have bad things happen to us, but when has being negative ever gotten someone far? Whatever you have to do to remain positive, do it. Maybe it means writing down three things you are thankful for at the end of each day/each week. Or maybe it means putting a positive spin on the bad things that happen to you.

Good luck, and have the best year ever!

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Caipirinhas, Portuguese Phrases and 4 Other Things I’ve Learned in Brazil

 

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Seven short days ago, I had never seen land outside of the United States. I often joked with others that the closest I had come to leaving the country was wading in the waters of southern Florida.

Nevertheless, today I can proudly say that I’ve (finally) left my home country and begun to experience life and culture outside of my comfort zone. I’ve tasted the caipirinhas, the Brazilian national drink – which, by the way, is nothing but pure sugar, limes and alcohol – learned a few phrases in Portuguese and been abandoned by my Uber a time or two already.

There are so many things that I could say about my trip so far – despite the fact that it’s only been a mere five days since I boarded my flight for Brazil, but still, I feel as if I’ve already learned and experienced so much. So, to give you a glimpse of my life here as a pseudo-Brazilian, here are a few things that I’ve learned while in Brazil:

1. The media tends to hype up the negative and downplay the positive

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The picture I took from the top of Sugarloaf Mountain in Rio near sunset. We rode cable cars up to the top of the mountain. This shot really embodies how beautiful the city is – a mix of both mountains, city and ocean. Christ the Redeemer can also be seen in the background.

I won’t lie to you, prior to leaving for Brazil, I was scared out of my mind. For months leading up to my trip, all I heard about were all of the negative aspects of the 2016 Rio Olympics. Each time I informed someone I would be visiting Rio, I opened an unwanted can of worms, listening to them ramble on and on about a city they had never traveled to, and things they probably didn’t know about. I was even frequently told, “Rio should have never hosted the Olympics.” Way to encourage my trip, I would think…

However, despite harsh criticism, I made my way to Rio de Janiero, Brazil, and (not) to my surprise, it’s been great so far. A few day into the Olympics, and I’m hoping that the media is starting to refocus their energy on yet another great Olympics.

2. People outside of the United States tend to be a whole lot nicer than us

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My friend, Allison, and myself with a Canadian man we met trading pins with at the Olympic Park in Rio. He had been to countless Olympics throughout the years and told us he likes to take pictures with the people he trades pins with so that he can remember them.

I could go on an endless rant about this topic. When non-citizens visit the United States, people often scoff and ridicule visitors who visit our country who cannot speak our language. Yet, as Americans, we visit other countries and get upset when they can’t speak the same language as us (even though we’re in their country).

However, what I’ve seen in Brazil is that any person who speaks English is eager to help translate. On several instances, Brazilians have seen me struggling to communicate with a person and came up to translate. A few days ago, I was at Christ the Redeemer and ordering a drink from the bartender. We were having a lot of difficulty communicating due to our language barrier, and a woman came up and stayed until I had pay just to make sure I was able to communicate with the bartender. That was something I thought was so incredible and kind that I do not think would happen necessarily in the United States.

3. Opportunity is everywhere

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At the Coca Cola center in the Olympic Park, I had the opportunity to hold one of the official Olympic torches. It’s not every day that this happens.

Walking around Rio, I have learned that opportunity really is everywhere. From all of the people I have randomly met at the Olympic venues – even learning that one person I coincidentally met taught at the school district only 20 minutes away from me – to holding an Olympic torch to attending the International Paralympic Committee press conference, I have already been given so many opportunities while here in Rio – both professionally and personally.

I believe that life is simply a series of choices and, sometimes, we have to create our own opportunity. However, you don’t always have to travel 5,000 miles away from home like I did. Sometimes, the best opportunities are right on your doorstep.

4. Traveling teaches us that the world is much smaller than we think

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My fellow students and I with a middle school teacher we met from Westfield, Ind. We just happened upon her at the Olympic Park while watching the Men’s Gymnastics Event on Saturday, August 6, 2016.

Whenever I think about the physical size of the world, I am mesmerized. I am even more mesmerized when I realize how many people are in this world. But what is truly even more amazing is the fact that no matter where you are in the world, there is a great chance that you’ll meet someone you have a connection to.

Already while in Brazil, I have met countless people from the United States – which should be of no surprise considering I am currently at the Olympics, the largest athletic event in the world. However, when I met Kelly Day, a middle school teacher from just the town over from me, I was so astonished that I so coincidentally happened upon someone who lives so close to me. Not only is it a reminder that the world really is smaller than we all think it is, but it is also a good reminder of home – no matter how far away I am.

21 certainties every twentysomething should know

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When it comes to being a twentysomething, I don’t think anyone has it figured out. I can’t remember what I had for breakfast this morning, let alone what my plan for post-graduation is. All I know is that Thursday night $2 double wells at Brothers is far more worth is than its Saturday night $5 counterpart–despite only a $3 difference. Hey, a college student’s gotta eat, ya know? That extra $3 can almost get me my favorite $4 meal at Wendy’s. I’m going to spare every cent I can.

Regardless, I did my best to come up with a few certainties that all us twentysomethings should know.

1. No one really has it all figured out, no matter what they might say.

And that’s okay. We’ll get to that when we turn 30.

2. It’s all going to work out.

I mean, when was the last time it didn’t? Life always has a funny way of working itself out.

3. No matter what your self esteem tells you, this is probably the best you’re ever going to look – so embrace it.

4. Standing on a scale every morning probably isn’t going to get you anywhere.

We all want to lose a few pounds. So, either be proactive or stop obsessing over something that isn’t going to make you feel any better (trust me, this one is easier said than done).

5. Don’t confine your life to a definitive plan.

Life is amazing, wonderful and also unpredictable. So plan for the worst, hope for the best, but don’t force your life to follow a strict path you set for yourself when you were 19.

6. Laying in bed until 4 p.m. and binge watching your favorite Netflix series isn’t necessarily a bad thing.

So what if you didn’t get dressed today and spent most of the day laying in bed, watching Netflix and reeling from your hangover from last night? One day when you’re a real adult with a family and responsibilities you won’t be able to do that anymore. Enjoy it while you can.

7. Your twenties are the most wide-reaching and vast decade of you life. Don’t compare where your at in this decade with where others are at – not all of life’s big moments happen for everyone at the same time.

Some people are married at twenty with a kid on the way, while others may be 29 and still looking for that certain someone. Others graduate on a strict 4-year plan, while some may take a little longer. Don’t compare where you’re at with where someone else is at, just as long as you are taking the appropriate steps to do something meaningful with your life and working hard at it. After all, that’s about all we can really do.

8. Saying no to a new opportunity may be more damaging than you may think.

Just don’t say no. You never know what that door may lead to.

9. It’s okay to date around.

It doesn’t make you a bad person. Just be careful about who you let into your life.

10. Speaking of bad people, don’t be afraid to cut toxic ones out of your life.

11. Being alone doesn’t mean that you are lonely.

Spending time by yourself can teach you more than you think. Don’t be afraid to go out to eat, see a movie or volunteer alone. Just because you do things alone sometimes doesn’t mean that you are a lonely person – it actually means that you are comfortable with who you are, on your own.

12. Drinking can be fun, but it can also be dangerous, too.

Go out, spend time with friends and have fun. But err on the side of caution. Have a game plan to get home – never get behind the wheel after drinking, even if you “feel fine”. Implement a buddy system with your friends – don’t wander off on your own, especially in an unfamiliar place. And never be afraid to take a drink away from a friend if it’s becoming a hazard to her health. They’ll forgive you in the morning.

13. Settling will never be worth it.

Don’t settle for the significant other who makes you feel just okay and not incredible. Don’t settle for a job that you like but don’t love. Don’t compromise your dreams, ethics and values for someone or something that just aren’t worth it.

14. Mom & dad will (almost) always be right.

And we hate that about them.

15. You’ll regret rushing through life. Enjoy each moment while you can.

16. Taking care of your body at twenty is far more important than you think.

Don’t forget to brush your teeth, quit bad habits and regularly schedule doctors appointments. Don’t take your health for granted just because your young, and don’t purposefully ignore good health practices – trust me, older you will be glad you took care of yourself while you were young.

17. Carefree > Careless

Go with the flow, enjoy life’s little moments. But don’t purposefully be stupid and end up in a bad situation.

18. Choosing passion over paycheck will be worth it.

If you’re going to have to spend the next fifty years doing something, make sure you don’t dread going into work each morning. The average American spends over 109,000 hours at work in their lifetime. Try to make those hours at least worthwhile and stimulating.

19. Never underestimate the power of a kind word, positive thought and a nightly prayer.

20. Happy thoughts will create a happy life.

21. Without a doubt, your twenties will be some of your favorite years. So, make the most of them while you still can.

 

Year-End Review: Junior Edition

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Cue the water works because I officially only have one year left as a college student. The past three years have been incredible and filled with so much love, happiness and success. I couldn’t be more appreciative of the university I chose to attend and all of the memories and experiences it has provided me with. It’s hard to believe that I’m now at a place where I am writing my third year-end review post (check out Year-End Review Freshman Year and Year-End Review: Sophomore Year). Still, I am thankful that I have roughly 365 days before the water works really begin and I have a quarter-life crises. I say it every year, but I can’t wait to see what the future holds for me this time around. Each year just keeps getting sweeter and sweeter. I truly know that “There are far better things ahead that any we leave behind” (my favorite C.S. Lewis quote).

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August: In August I celebrated (obviously) the single most important event of my junior year: my 21st birthday. Or, as I affectionately call it, the last of my exciting birthdays. My birthday happened to fall on the first day of classes of junior year, which was quite the experience, but I was so thankful that so many of my wonderful friends and sorority sisters came out on a Monday night to celebrate my birthday with me. Also in August, I worked again as a Welcome Week Leader, assisting freshman with their move-in and transition to Ball State. Although this month was not monumental in any way, shape or form other than my birthday, it was a great start to my junior year and set the foundation for everything that was going to happen this year.

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September:  My first memory of the month of September was spending all of Labor Day weekend watching my favorite trilogy: The Dark Knight. It was not a productive weekend to say the least, but it was obviously time well spent for me. Nonetheless, September was an interesting month. It was crazy busy (per usual) with recruitment, Bid Day, the Alzheimer’s Walk, and the camping Sisterhood Retreat. It wasn’t the month that I had envisioned in more ways than one , but I was incredibly thankful for the wonderful support of my friends. My proudest moment of this month was planning and implementing Bid Day 2015. After a long summer of preparation, crafting and several nightmares, it was a great experience and I was so incredibly happy to welcome 52 amazing new members into Sigma Kappa.

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October: In October, my parents took me to Las Vegas to celebrate my 21st birthday and my mom’s 50th over my Fall Break. This was hands down one of the best trips I have ever been on. Vegas was such a cool experience and something that I hope everyone can see at least once in their lifetime. From the strip and all of it’s bright lights to Hoover Dam, it was a fantastic trip. Also in October, I was honored at the CCIM (College of Communications, Information, and Media) Dean’s List Ceremony for the second time and celebrated Ball State Family Weekend tailgating with my parents. I also attended my sorority’s Sponto dance and dressed up as a really adorable Bubble Gum machine for Halloween (picking 1 picture for each month is proving more and more difficult for me). For as long as I can remember, October has always been my favorite month and it’s easy for me to see why.

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November: Hands down, the most exciting event of this month was being elected to President of the Gamma Eta Chapter of Sigma Kappa in November 2015. It was a position that I had been working towards since my freshman year and I was so thankful for all of my sisters for believing in me and voting me into this position. Also in November, I attended my sorority formal and as always, had a wonderful time with great friends. However, other than being elected President, my favorite part of this month had to have been Thanksgiving break. Thanksgiving has always been my favorite holiday, and not just for the food. I love the simplicity of the holiday. It’s all about love and family, without expecting any presents in return (other than the food, of course) and naturally I overate and spent the remainder of the day wallowing over the pain in my stomach. I did enjoy watching “Planes, Trains, and Automobiles” with my family, the new Thanksgiving tradition we started in 2014. Although long and at times painful, I did enjoy an 8-hour car ride with my dad to pick up my sister from Chicago and bring her all of the way back home to Indianapolis.

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December: Ah, the month of Christmas. This is one of my favorites. I definitely enjoyed my much-needed break while I was off of school and work for the Christmas vacation. Although the weather was disappointingly warm this year, it didn’t stop me from getting into the Christmas spirit. Winter break was surprisingly exciting and time consuming for me, versus the usual laziness I ensue. I visited Christmas at the Zoo for the first time with a friend and it was incredible (I plan on going back), I tried chocolate martini’s with my parents and hated them (won’t be doing that again) and I was able to spend a lot of time with friends back home. For Christmas, I was most excited about my Crock Pot and Erin Condren planner so that’s when I knew I was becoming an adult.

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January: To start off the year right, I got dressed up and spend New Year’s Eve downtown with some of my girlfriends. Since it was my first NYE being of age, I was excited to do something fun–and it was definitely an experience. My favorite part would probably have to be making friends with all of the different Uber drivers we had throughout the night. Also in January, I tried ice skating for the first time in about seven years. Although I was terrified and could barely move on the ice at first, to my surprise, I wasn’t half bad and shocker–actually enjoyed it! January turned out to be a very busy yet rewarding month. Getting back to Ball State and to my friends was great after nearly a month a part. I also enjoyed a trip to Chicago with my fellow Sigma Kappa Executive Council members for the Regional Leadership Conference, despite the fact that there was no way our bus driver had a real driver’s license, as we nearly crashed multiple times. Thankful to have made it out of that one.

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February: It’s a miracle I spelled this month right, as it is hands down the hardest word in the English dictionary for me to spell. From here on out, I will probably just refer to it as “this month”. So, here are some highlights from “this month”: after countless months of eager waiting, I finally welcomed two of my best friends into the 21 club. Now, most of my close friends were able to go to the bars with me. I celebrated a few holidays including Valentine’s Day (with a huge blizzard at DQ for the occasion) and of course, Mardi Gras. Also the Superbowl, if you count that as a holiday (which is definitely is). We welcomed 9 new members into Sigma Kappa as our spring new member class.

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March: By the time March rolled around, it was finally time for Spring Break. Alongside 3 of my sorority sisters, we traveled to Orlando, Florida. My favorite moment of that trip was visiting Universal Studios. There was one roller coast in particular that I was terrified of riding, but it turned out to be one of the most fun things I have ever been on. The fun didn’t stop after we got back from Spring Break, though. For the first time in my collegiate experience, I celebrated St. Patrick’s Day. This turned out to be one of my favorite moments of junior year for several reasons. I think one of my favorite parts of this was walking to get Chinese food with my friend Erica, and then coming back to take a nap in her bed, despite the fact that it was not even 8 p.m. My best friend Megan made a trip down from Purdue one weekend and I loved being able to catch up with her. I welcomed my newest little into my Greek family, Rachel, and we quickly became close friends (I’m already so thankful for her friendship). Lastly, I celebrated Easter back home with my family and was surprised by my sister, Allie, surprising us with a trip home that weekend.

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April: Besides October, April is typically one of my favorite months. This month started out with my sorority raising $5,500 for Alzheimer’s at our annual philanthropy event, Battle of the Sexes. I’m always so proud to be apart of such an incredible organization with an event more incredible cause. I was honored with the opportunity to attend the recolonization of the Tau Chapter of Sigma Kappa at Indiana University this month as well. Seeing 170 women initiated is something that I will never forget. I attended both of my sorority’s social events and had a great time, as always, with great friends. Towards the end of the month, I was honored to be a recipient of the Oliver C. Bumb Cardinal Corps Scholarship. Cardinal Corps has provided me with several opportunities to get involved and meet new people on campus and this scholarship has made me even more excited for my senior year at Ball State. I was also inducted into the nation’s oldest journalism honorary, Kappa Tau Alpha. Without a doubt, it’s been an overwhelming and stressful semester, but it has also been filled with so much happiness and fond memories. I’m excited to begin my summer internship with Dittoe PR and to travel to the 2016 Summer Olympics in Rio De Janiero, Brazil. Here goes nothing!

 

The Road to a Healthier and Happier Me

It’s a classic New Year’s resolution.

“I want to lose weight” or “I need to hit the gym more often”.

Year after year, we hear people stating these same resolutions. Despite it’s obvious cliché, I still decided to make a healthier lifestyle my resolution going into 2016. It’s not all about the weight loss for me (although I wouldn’t mind shredding 10 pounds or so), rather, a lot of it is simply about being a healthier version of me.

Far too often, I find myself indulging in way too much food. Not to mention, I spent so many years being inactive. The most exercise I got most days was walking to classes or running to the refrigerator because food excites me far more than it should. So, when 2016 rolled around, I promised myself that this time around, I was going to do it. I was going to start working on being healthy, once and for all. Who knows, maybe I won’t even lose a single pound through all of this, and some days I might still eat fast food for every meal. The important thing is that I am going to work on being healthy, meaning watching my meals and buying healthier options, as well as exercising at least 4-5 times a week.

So far, it has only been 8 days. Still, 8 more days working on health and fitness than before. I’m hoping that in a month or two I will have updates on my current progress, and by the end of the semester I hope to still be continuing these practices and have something to show for it!

If you’re like me, being extremely healthy is not something that comes natural. It’s something that I have to work at. Even if you’re not looking for a huge life change, but maybe you just want to be healthier than you were before, here are some of my tips on how I’m working towards my goals:

  • Purchase some sort of gym membership
    • At Ball State, all students get access to the Rec Center for free (aka we pay for it in tuition). However, I knew that going to the gym wasn’t going to work for me. I wouldn’t know what to do or do it effectively. So, I purchased a “Fit Pass”, which gives me unlimited access to all of the fitness classes at the Rec Center 7 days a week. So far, I have tried cycling, pilates, yoga, Total Body Tone, Zumba, and Step.
  • Get an accountability partner
    • I also knew that if I was alone in this, I would make it to the rec center about once a week. So, I found a friend who was also interested in working out more often. Now we are able to push each other and encourage one another to get to fit classes as many nights as possible!
  • Set Goals (And stick to them!)
    • If you don’t know what you’re working towards, then how will you accomplish anything? Decide what changes you’re going to make, when they’re going to happen, and how you’re going to stick to them.
  • Fight the urge at the grocery store
    • That place is tempting, trust me. But when you don’t purchase a lot of unhealthy food at the grocery store, then you really have no choice but to eat semi-healthy when you’re at home. I’ve completely stopped buying junk foods like mozzarella sticks, Cheetos, and other not-so-good for you stuff at the grocery. Now my snack options are typically limited to veggie straws, fresh fruit, and cottage cheese.
  • Accept that you’re going to mess up sometimes
    • Let’s face it, we’re all human. This means that from time-to-time you are going to slip up. You’re going to forget to go to the gym. You’re going to indulge in some delicious but extremely unhealthy food. The point is that you keep trying, even when you slip up!